{"id":5924,"date":"2025-10-17T10:36:28","date_gmt":"2025-10-17T04:51:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/himalini.com\/en\/?p=5924"},"modified":"2025-10-17T10:36:28","modified_gmt":"2025-10-17T04:51:28","slug":"why-meet-such-people-when-every-hand-holds-a-phone-but-no-one-holds-a-hand","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/himalini.com\/en\/why-meet-such-people-when-every-hand-holds-a-phone-but-no-one-holds-a-hand.html","title":{"rendered":"Why Meet Such People\u2026 When every hand holds a phone, but no one holds a hand."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"5925\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/himalini.com\/en\/why-meet-such-people-when-every-hand-holds-a-phone-but-no-one-holds-a-hand.html\/img-20251017-wa0016\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/himalini.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG-20251017-WA0016.jpg?fit=960%2C1600&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"960,1600\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"IMG-20251017-WA0016\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/himalini.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG-20251017-WA0016.jpg?fit=180%2C300&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/himalini.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG-20251017-WA0016.jpg?fit=614%2C1024&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-5925\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/himalini.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG-20251017-WA0016.jpg?resize=640%2C1067&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/himalini.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG-20251017-WA0016.jpg?w=960&amp;ssl=1 960w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/himalini.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG-20251017-WA0016.jpg?resize=180%2C300&amp;ssl=1 180w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/himalini.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG-20251017-WA0016.jpg?resize=614%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 614w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/himalini.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG-20251017-WA0016.jpg?resize=768%2C1280&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/himalini.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG-20251017-WA0016.jpg?resize=922%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 922w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>{ Prof. S.S. Dogra }<\/p>\n<p>A Magic Lamp in Every Hand<\/p>\n<p>Today, every person holds \u201cAladdin\u2019s Lamp\u201d in their hand \u2014 the mobile phone!<br \/>\nWhatever we want, whenever we want \u2014 just press a button, and it appears.<br \/>\nTechnology has made the impossible possible.<br \/>\nIn the last 25 years, this mobile revolution has completely transformed our lifestyle, thinking, and behavior.<br \/>\nWhether it\u2019s a village or a city, the old or the young \u2014 everyone is now entangled in this digital web.<\/p>\n<p>The WhatsApp University and Lost Sensitivity<\/p>\n<p>This generation lives in an era of information explosion.<br \/>\n\u201cWhatsApp University\u201d has turned everyone into a so-called PhD holder \u2014<br \/>\nwithout real education, without depth.<br \/>\nEveryone has an opinion on everything, gives judgments, and believes they are right.<\/p>\n<p>But amidst this noise of knowledge, the tenderness of emotions and the warmth of relationships are gradually fading away.<br \/>\nTechnology has given us convenience but has taken away our humanity.<br \/>\nNow, returning a missed call, replying to a message, or asking about someone\u2019s well-being is considered a \u201cwaste of time.\u201d<br \/>\nWe are more connected than ever \u2014 yet lonelier than before.<\/p>\n<p>Affection in Front, Neglect Behind<\/p>\n<p>Often, we meet people who greet us warmly,<br \/>\ntouch our feet, express affection, and touch our hearts for a moment.<br \/>\nBut as soon as the meeting ends, the same person ignores our message or doesn\u2019t answer our call.<\/p>\n<p>This hypocrisy has become a new social norm.<br \/>\nOur words are sweet, but our hearts lack truth.<br \/>\nFaces smile, but emotions have frozen.<\/p>\n<p>Relationships Matter More Than Technology<\/p>\n<p>We must remember \u2014 mobile phones, the internet, and social media are only tools, not relationships.<br \/>\nTrust, affection, and empathy are not \u201capps\u201d that can be downloaded.<br \/>\nThey are born from the heart<br \/>\nand can only be preserved by those who still listen to their inner voice amidst the noise of machines.<\/p>\n<p>Today, everyone has an online presence,<br \/>\nbut human presence is rapidly disappearing.<br \/>\nWe are so engrossed in screens that we\u2019ve forgotten to look into each other\u2019s eyes.<\/p>\n<p>Relationships Can\u2019t Survive on \u2018Read Seen\u2019<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time to ask ourselves \u2014<br \/>\nHas technology really taken us forward, or has it pushed us backward emotionally?<br \/>\nBecause relationships that depend on read seen, last seen, and online status \u2014<br \/>\nhow long can they truly last?<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, the heart quietly asks \u2014<br \/>\nWhy meet such people<br \/>\nwhose smiles are fake and hearts empty?<br \/>\nWhose words are sweet, but actions contradict them?<br \/>\nWhere love is in words, but pretense in feelings?<\/p>\n<p>The Truth of an Old Hindi Song<\/p>\n<p>And then, an old Hindi film song echoes with timeless truth \u2014<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Kya miliye aise logon se jinki fitrat chhupi rahe,<br \/>\nNakli chehra saamne aaye, asli soorat chhupi rahe\u2026&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>(\u201cWhy meet such people whose true nature stays hidden,<br \/>\nwhose fake faces are shown, while their real selves stay concealed&#8230;\u201d)<\/p>\n<p>Technology can connect us \u2014<br \/>\nbut only humans have the power to connect hearts.<br \/>\nThe mobile phone gives us convenience, speed, and knowledge \u2014<br \/>\nbut that genuine human touch, which reaches the soul,<br \/>\nis slowly disappearing.<\/p>\n<p>Now is the time \u2014<br \/>\nto lift our eyes from screens and look into each other\u2019s eyes,<br \/>\nto feel before sending a message,<br \/>\nand above all \u2014 to see a human being as human once again.<\/p>\n<p>(Writer: Prof. S.S. Dogra \u2014 Senior journalist and media educator, actively writing for over three decades on literature, sports, society and human sensitivity.)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>{ Prof. S.S. Dogra } A Magic Lamp in Every Hand Today, every person holds \u201cAladdin\u2019s Lamp\u201d in their hand \u2014 the mobile phone! Whatever we want, whenever we want \u2014 just press a button, and it appears. Technology has made the impossible possible. 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