By: Aarna Mishra “Where are you from?”
A universal question which is presented by most whomever you meet, especially as an immigrant in the United States.
Legally, I would have to say I’m from India. I was born in Bangalore, Karnataka. I even lived here for a couple of years; however, I grew up in the United States. Due to my father’s job, we’ve moved all around the States; currently, we reside in the suburbs of Chicago, Illinois.
Even with that explanation, I have only been able to describe two-thirds of my identity.
On my mother’s side, I have ties to one of the most beautiful countries in the world, Nepal.
Almost every summer since I can remember, I have visited family in Kathmandu, Nepal, where my mother grew up. Luckily, I’ve enjoyed all sorts of cultural experiences throughout Kathmandu.
Photographer: Aarna Mishra
Throughout these experiences, I’ve learned a great deal about the people and their culture and even about myself.
Every sight and world heritage area is absolutely stunning. For Hindus, there is a surplus of ancient temples. Each one is complete with its own stunning architecture and a wonderful place to worship and spend time with their faith.
Between the never-ending mountains and hills to the gorgeous, colorful houses, every angle of this world feels interesting in an organized yet chaotic way. Even just spending the evenings on an otherwise insignificant rooftop, there is always a beautiful landscape waiting at every location. Used to the plains of Illinois, here car rides especially have my eyes glued to the window and the tranquil scenery. I have truly never seen anything like it.
On these rides, I also always notice how the different streets, main and local, are always packed with cars, people, and even animals. Additionally, I enjoy the vibrant personality that the hills bring to the region’s landscape. Just driving in the streets, one can see all sorts of beautiful scenery.
Back where I currently live, all streets are basically flat and have a very sleek, obviously organized way about them. They are truly just made for motor vehicles; I’d even be surprised to see people walking along the side of some of our most calm roads.
However, being Indian and spending a decent amount of time in that country, I’m used to the sounds and chaotic excitement that lie in the streets on this side of the world. So, I have been able to find comfort in this type of environment. To be completely honest, I have come to prefer it. There is always so much to see and learn; I find it so incredibly fascinating.
I find myself more relaxed on the streets in Kathmandu. Compared to other areas of the world, the general public has a reputation for being trustworthy and helpful. While there is all sorts of danger in any place in the world, I genuinely do not live in fear of pickpockets or any other dangers here. People are nice, caring, and helpful. There is a commonly felt safety in these streets.
Another amazing thing about this place, both on the streets and off, is the satisfying cuisine that this place brings. As in India, street food is very common in Kathmandu. I spend all year looking forward to indulging in the food scene here and even in India. South Asian food has a special place in my heart.
In Kathmandu, I enjoy ordering a plate of steamed chicken momos everywhere I go. I have also found myself enjoying the traditional thakali, which is the perfect order if you wish to completely fill yourself up.
A traditional thakali contains the classic bhaat (rice), dal (lentil soup), different types of tarkaris (vegetables), meat curries, and many other traditional sides. Each item on the plate is subject to unlimited refills, which is another reason why it’s a fan favorite. Food is a large part of any culture, and here in Kathmandu, their traditional dishes are one of the best parts of visiting the area.
Another thing that interests me about Kathmandu is its use of language. The majority of the population speaks Nepali, the offical language of Nepal. However, in my experience, many people there are multilingual. I have found that one can hear languages such as Newari, Maithili, Hindi and even English in the streets of Kathmandu other than Nepali.
As my family is from Mithila, a cultural region found around parts of India and Nepal, I grew up speaking Maithili at home. Additionally, spending time in India has made me fluent in Hindi as well. Whenever I go to Nepal, I always try my best to learn some more Nepali, and over the years, I have been able to pick up bits and pieces.
Using my English, Maithli, Hindi, and bits of Nepali, I have found it possible to communicate with some of the locals, which has been an extra advantage in experiencing this area. Even while considering the language, one can see exploring Kathmandu has a unique place in our world.
Overall, my family’s home in Kathmandu, Nepal has always been one of my favorite places in the world. I enjoy all my adventures I have had the great privilege of going on. I am constantly gushing about this wonderous country and all it holds to my friends in the United States. I recommend a visit to Nepal to everyone; between the food, sights, and overall culture there is a little something here for everyone to enjoy
Swayambhunath, an UNESCO world heritage sight, is a sacred pilgrimage sight for both Hindus and Buddhists. By climbing 365 steep stairs and visiting the holy sight above, people of these faiths hope to find inner peace, blessings, and a spiritual awakening. Pictured in this photo is the main attraction called Swayambhu stupa. This stupa has a white half-sphere base which is said to represent earth. Above, on each side of the stupa, one can find statues of the five buddhas who represen the five cosmic elements (ether, water, earth, fire and air).
Photographer: Aarna Mishra
Basantapur Durbar, also known as Kathmandu Durbar Square, used to be a palace where kings were legitimized and crowned. Today, one can find over 50 Hindu temples here. Pictured here is the old courtyard where many set up small shops, selling all sorts of small trinkets; this is an ideal place to shop for souvenirs. Rich in history and culture, Basantapur is a wonderful place to visit. Source for Caption: https://www.lonelyplanet.com/nepal/kathmandu/attractions/durbar-square/a/poi-sig/386867/357144
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